Online adult dating is not for losers. Be successful! At least in the first letter.

Remember, women like successful men. It’s a rule. So be one at least in the letter. Don’t lie about yourself but instead just arrange true facts about your life in the most favorable way. I am not going to tell you how to do it. Not even will give an example. Everyone can be successful and look good. No matter who you are – car mechanic or an MBA student. In a couple of sentences show her that you are proud of what you are doing, you are good at what you are doing and you have great future in this field. It’s better to be a car mechanic, best in town, than a pathetic MBA with puny boring job. Regardless of your occupation every one can be looser too.

Tell her about yourself. Tell her how good you are. 

Tell her about yourself. What you like, what you do for fun. Be an interesting person, girls hate boring guys. Among you interest mention something smart. Books for example. Girls like smart guys. Mention that you are playing sports, let her know your are in good shape. Tell her you like to travel, she may think you can take her with you on the next trip. But again - make it short and informative. Don’t put stories about your last trip to Hawaii or your Small League game. Not now.

Be confident. Don’t talk like a looser.

Don’t say puny fraises like “I don’t know if you are going to answer me…” or “I don’t think you will answer me but I decided to write you anyway…” It is some of the worst things to say. Don’t act like a looser. Girls like confident men. So be one.

Don’t talk about your problems!!!

Never tell about your own problems. Don’t tell her that you’ve just broke up with your ex (actually never mention your ex at all!), don’t tell that you are depressed and just got fired. Girls like strong and successful men, don’t load your letters with problems. Save them for later.