Often mistakes when you dating online

Don’t send the same letter twice. Girls don’t like it.

Make sure you NEVER write to same girl twice. Well… let me take this back. Make sure you never send THE SAME LETTER to same girl twice. It’s a very typical situation when a girl is posting her profile again and again after some time period. This happened to me once. I wrote to a girl (and she had a killer picture too, I have no doubts she received hundreds if not thousands of letters) and she never answered to me. Some time later she posted her profile again. The picture and the words were different but I immediately recognized this cutie. I decided to write her again. But this time I came up with completely different letter. Different pictures too. I got a date with her.

Do not repeat yourself. Do not send girls the same letters.

Girls really hate it when they get the same letter twice. They want to believe every letter is unique and is written specially for them. So if you really like the girl - just write a new letter. And use different pictures too. It’s worth the effort.

Might be a good idea to keep all the letters you mail out. Or even keep a database of the girls you wrote too. So when you see a girl you’ve already wrote to you could always refer to your previous letter and this time make a totally different one.

Make your letter short. Make it stick out. 

Make your letter short. How many letters do you think an average girl gets when she posts her profile on the dating site? I checked - several hundreds the first day. If she has a really nice picture - several thousand. This number gradually goes down as tome goes, but it is still way more than she can possibly read. Your goal is to make your letter read and competition is tight. So start with the subject field. Your subject decides if she will read your letter at all. So make it good. I believe it must be shirt, friendly and different from the rest. What most people put in the subject?
Correct answer: hi! So don’t do it. Instead make it creative. Sometimes it works well to use her name in the subject. For example:
- Anna, this one is special! or Jane, you are beautiful!
Also might be a good idea to bring her attention with a catchy fraise. For instance:
- Surprise inside. or Don’t read this one
Again, be creative. I don’t like using stuff like  in the body of the letter but I think the subject line might be a good place for something like this:
"For you, Kate"

Make your first letter to a new girl personal. 

Make your letter personal. Make her to believe you are writing just for her. Girls hate to receive cliche letters. They want to receive a letter written just for them. So write one. Definitely user her name on the letter. Comment on what she wrote in her profile on the dating site. Say a complement. Be creative. Ask her questions about what wrote. For example, if she says she likes dancing ask her about her favorite style and ask if she’s giving private lessons. Let’s admit, we all use templates. But let’s do it a smart way. Customize your template for this particular girl, spend at least several minutes making your letter personal and interesting to read. It’s great if you have something in common. You traveled to same place, drive the same car or work in the same field. Tell her about it. And ask her a question about it. After that you will look more familiar to her then the rest of her correspondents. Ounce again, remember. She will get tons of template generated letters once she posts profile on the dating web site. Make your letter different.