She answered on your dating letter. Keep writing. Be friendly. Ask her out.
Okay, she answered you. What’s next? There is no universal recipe. All cases are unique. Just continue to stay friendly and interesting. Write back promptly. Continue to exploit her curiosity. Wait for the right time to ask her out.
Always spell check your responses.
Always use spell checker. Letter with grammatical errors looks bad and sloppy. Show respect to the girl you are writing to and make sure your spelling is correct.
Don’t give your phone number in a first letters. She won’t call anyway.
Don’t put your phone on your first letters. If you write this letter right she will give you her phone number soon. It’s always better when you are calling a girl first. Besides you don’t want your number to get to spammers.
Don’t be too nice or she will get bored.
Don’t look like a really nice guy on your letter. Girls don’t like nice guys. They get bored with them. They like real men. Put in the letter something bad about yourself. Tell her how you’ve dropped your accounting job once, bought a chopper and down to Mexico for 2 month. Tell her about something wild you’ve done. And again don’t make it long. A couple of sentences are enough.
Don’t rush with sending a letter. Wait for a day or two.
Here is another trick I’ve used. When a new girls appears on the dating site, don’t send her a letter right away. Wait for a day or two. On the first day it’s too easy to get lost among the hundreds of other letters while on the 2nd or 3rd day it’s easier to get noticed. But don’t wait too long since she may stop checking her e-mails.
Don’t ask for a date now. But don’t wait fot too long. Ask her out when she’s ready.
Don't offer her an off-line date after her first response. Chances for success are slim. Most girls will turn you down. Instead make her interested in you. Start a conversation. But don't make your correspondence too long. There is no universal rule on the correspondence length. Sometimes you can ask her out in a second letter, sometimes even 10 is not enough. Just try to feel the right time to ask her out. But don’t wait for ever. Girl like resolute men.
Watch for girlfriend. With some reason many girls decide to go on-line along with their girlfriends. Make sure you never write to both girls. Even if you come up with two different letters, still don’t send them to both. Girls want to be unique. Make her to believe that you don’t write to anyone but her.
I new a girl who posted her profile on a dating site together with her girlfriend. And they immediately ruled out guys who wrote to them both. No matter how good these guys were.
Here are some tips for detecting girlfriends:
- they appear on the same day.
- they may have similar pictures / profiles
- they use the same mail service
If you suspect that these girls are together – pick the one you like most and write only to her. It’s better to get one answer then none.
